The relationship/potential relationship advice thread

I'm a fan of well endowed women, but I'd take small and perky over fake and. . . Actually a friend of mine got elective surgery to reduce her breasts. Terrible back problems. Couldn't believe it myself. She had amazing breasts, but she is happier now. . . Tragic loss

For me it depends, has to suit the body aswell, and the shape might be more important than the size to me. My brother's girlfriend has had breast reduction aswell, also because of her back.

Well I'm rather lucky that I have ample pair of boobs, I think fake boobs look awful and they don't look right. I'm sure I speak from experience when I say that a man loves a real pair of boobs 

Yeah, it's not just the way they look and feel though. It's also just the whole idea behind it for me. I have that in general with girls, if they they're too busy with their appearance, just too girly girl, inches of make-up, and stuff like that. Not my type. I guess breast implants are part of that aswell.

I seriously think if I'd be in bed with a girl and I'd find out she has fake breasts I can't continue. It's that big of a turn off for me.

I know a lot of Men feel the same Dex, so you're not on your own.

Good to hear! Plenty who disagree with me too I'm sure.

Never something you'd honestly say to a girl who has them though is it. It's like when someone shows you his/her new tattoo and it's a really ugly one. They're not hearing it from me! Unless I know them really well but..

I suppose it's easy for us to judge Dex, but there's is more to a woman then just the physical. For me if that becomes her main focus it would be a pretty dull relationship. I've been with a few like that, but it never went further than a few months. Eventually sex isn't enough to keep a relationship.

Well mate, these days guys can be just as bad apparently. Just have to watch an episode of Jersey Shore to see.

Shame though. She was cute.

The way you carry on sometimes you'd swear you were an ugly motherfucker. . . ha ha ha. Just kidding. Have a mate that's a model and he's a shallow guy. Doesn't stop the women falling over themselves to get to him. Funny guy. He told me I should use my son to pick up women cause it worked for him with a puppy. Had to remind him of the slight complication that having a son meant. Hollywood movies with single dads has a lot to answer for. My kid is a babe magnet when I bring him it. Ridiculous  

Yeah, it's not just the way they look and feel though. It's also just the whole idea behind it for me. I have that in general with girls, if they they're too busy with their appearance, just too girly girl, inches of make-up, and stuff like that. Not my type. I guess breast implants are part of that aswell.

I seriously think if I'd be in bed with a girl and I'd find out she has fake breasts I can't continue. It's that big of a turn off for me.

Hahaha. I have to agree with everything you say. Fake stuffs are a huge turn off to me too. I also can't really stand girls who spend so much time putting make up or even take 1000 photos of the same pose.

The most beautiful girls in the world to me would be those who look great just the way they are!

Loving reading this thread 

Nice one Adryan!

The way you carry on sometimes you'd swear you were an ugly motherfucker. . . ha ha ha. Just kidding. Have a mate that's a model and he's a shallow guy. Doesn't stop the women falling over themselves to get to him. Funny guy. He told me I should use my son to pick up women cause it worked for him with a puppy. Had to remind him of the slight complication that having a son meant. Hollywood movies with single dads has a lot to answer for. My kid is a babe magnet when I bring him it. Ridiculous  

I know mate, I'm just weird with some stuff, I have some principles where I just don't budge. It can be tiring to be honest, but I can't help it. I might not be an ugly motherfucker as you say, but I got things far from figured out! I've been through plenty of sh*t in my life, which has left his mark. The way I look won't change that.

Anyway, I guess it's also because I'm not interested in girls to just have fun with(with the exception of friends), I'm interested in girls to have fun with and potentially more. I'm done with F***ing around, figuratively and literally speaking. I rather be by myself than have loose affairs. That only gave me problems in the past.

And yeah, haha. Big difference between a puppy and a kid mate.

All looks no brains that lad. Fair play to you Dex. Would be easy to become shallow. It's harder to walk away from that lifestyle. It's better to surround yourself with women you can enjoy being with and there are no stupid mind games. . . Oh yeah and their big breasts are real. . . In case Cas is still reading

It's better to surround yourself with women you can enjoy being with and there are no stupid mind games. . . Oh yeah and their big breasts are real. . . In case Cas is still reading

Deffo and I am 

It is great to read that there are guys out there who don't want a girl who is fake. I am a girl who wears make-up on occasion, don't care to wear it every time I leave the house.

I have had girls with big boobs, and small boobs. Never mattered much to me as long as the whole package went together well - and the personality, of course!

I thought Firepool was a dude aswell!
I should pay more attention to those signs next to names.

But I guess us guys aren't all bad then.
In the end all the fakeness, make-up and appearance is all a front isn't it. It's much nicer if a girl is comfortable in her own skin, and isn't afraid to be herself.

And bigv, the subject was breast implants though, how about those?

I thought Firepool was a dude aswell!
I should pay more attention to those signs next to names.

But I guess us guys aren't all bad then.
In the end all the fakeness, make-up and appearance is all a front isn't it. It's much nicer if a girl is comfortable in her own skin, and isn't afraid to be herself.

And bigv, the subject was breast implants though, how about those?

You do know MsGerrard is a girl then right?

I agree, it's always best when a girl just is comfortable with herself. I hate being with a girl and you say "You're so beautiful" or something and they just throw it back with a "Eww no look at me i have this wrong blah blah blah" - seriously, i don't complain about my big nose, freckles etc - shut up!

And boob jobs? Well, not a huge fan of the stupid ones. But Laura's best friend actually has one.. but it's only cos she was pretty darn small before apparently. And i didn't actually notice anything abnormal until Laura told me, and even i don't find it hugely noticeable. Laura does, but she knew her for years before. I dunno, it's a hard one. Hers were simply a real want of just having some decent size i think, not wanting to be abnormally large. Like i said, i didn't think anything of it until i got told.

But I guess us guys aren't all bad then.

I have to say you guys aren't all bad.

I have to say you guys aren't all bad.

Of course not, we are Liverpool fans after all

Of course not, we are Liverpool fans after all

That is a very good point bigv.

And bigv, the subject was breast implants though, how about those?

They are very hard yet tender at the same time.

Things got weird with me and my chick. Shame.

Back to being lonely.