Thanks to you all gonna be a tough few days but we will get through it .
You will Andy. They say that "time is a great healer" but what time really does is it gives you the space to cope. Pass on my thoughts to your good lady and tell her to always remember the good. Take care buddy.
I know the sadness you are going through Andy, in the last month we have lost a Brother in Law and a Daughter in law. It brings life and forums back to reality.
That it does Billy.
Three days before Christmas I hit and killed a bloke in his 60's.
Long story short: he was somewhere he shouldn't have been and there was nothing I could do to stop it happening; I had to watch on, in horror, as the events unfolded. A total accident [death by misadventure] but it didn't stop me or his family having the shittiest of all Christmases and New Years. I'll probably never come to terms with it fully but what it (and things like it) does is put minor skirmishes and major fall-outs, on a forum into perspective.
We aren't to know what's going on, in people's lives, outside of this place (how could we?) but the odd visit to this thread really does serve to remind us of what little importance our opinions are in the scheme of things.
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