I have learnt never to judge someone from first impressions, something I used to do when I was younger, now I take time to get to know someone and value their friendship, as 9 times out of 10, they are really nice people.
I also value time spent with my family, especially my mum and sister. After going through the deaths of close friends, relatives and my partner, I cherish my time with them very much.
And its very true, you only get out of life what you are prepared to put into it.
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