Oh, and good luck with dealing with parents during games, some of them piss me off!
You have to take a firm hand with parents straight away or they will become a right pain in the arse. It is too late leaving it 6 months when you've finally had enough.
Give yourself some space from parents. In England there has to be a respect barrier. Make sure they stay behind that and then you go to the other side of the pitch, away from them so you don't have to listen to their twitterings. If an uninvited parent joins you inform them that all parents should be behind the respect barrier.
If you hear them shouting instructions politely tell them you don't want too many instructions from the sideline and that it's important the boys make their own decisions on the pitch and learn from their mistakes.
If they try and join in your half-time/full-time team talks tell them boys are more inhibited to speak when other parents are listening so F**k off!
If they have a quiet word with you about team matters and you don't agree stick to your guns; football is a game of opinions and most are bollocks. You don't have to justify your decisions (eg subbing his lad) and trying to justify is often counter-productive.
Having said all that my current set of parents are absolutely top notch, supportive and helpful but it's not always that way.
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