I do understand your points Debs and Swab, but I prefer people being honest and don't really see the point in people acting like trained seals if they don't feel that way. I do get annoyed when people go over the top , but this is a football forum not Anfield.
I see it more as a place were we can share our thoughts on the club and the players and part of that for me anyway means sometimes we criticize the players the team and the manager.
I don't like people abusing players or the manager, but as for general criticism I either agree with them or don't, but it doesn't bother me. If someone points out that a player is playing poorly or that the manager has picked the wrong team .... to me it is just a topic of discussion not something to worry about.
We can all shut our eyes think of England and pretend everything is great ... but there wouldn't be much discussion would there?
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I'm all for discussion mate.
Football would be a pretty boring sport without it and without different opinions.
What gets me is when the first thing people do is look to place blame.
That's not constructive criticism, that's looking for a scapegoat.
I think pointing out players who have had a bad game is good for discussion as well, no problems with it at all.
The problem (for me) comes when every mistake a player makes is magnified, and everything good he does is ignored.
That's scapegoating.
This seasons scapegoat is Balotelli.
Last seasons was Johnson.
Before that was Lucas, and Henderson.
We see people slagging them about everything and anything, from patting their hair to the colour of their boots.
What I'm saying, in a round about way, is that discussion is one thing, jumping on a scapegoating bandwagon is quite another and when this happens football gets ignored and it becomes personal.
Where's the need for it?
It just creates division and strife.
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