What about the happiness and the feelings of the person who doesn't feel comfortable around a gay man.
F**k them! Right?
One rule for one and another for the 'bigot'.
As Diego said - Right. Full F***ing stop.
You didn't read my post very well, clearly. However in a preceding one it may have been explained better, that as soon as what you need to derive happiness is directly then potentially infringing on someone else happiness, then you're just a sh*t person.
It isn't all that far removed from being uncomfortable around people of colour. There's no F***ing good reason to not just treat them like another person, so why F***ing judge them or their lifestyle?
There's not one rule for one and another for a bigot. Just don't be a bigot. Toughen the F**k up, as you like to say, tough man.
If somebody doesn't feel comfortable around a gay man then they don't have to explain it to you or the rest of the world. It's their life and nobody should force them to agree with homosexuality. If they don't like or agree with it then so what. Who gives a f**k. Tell me, why do we all have to? As long as they cause no harm to homosexuals and they want to distance themselves from them then why?
Sure, if you just want to distance yourself and not socialise in any way without saying anything or acting homophobic, that is in a way being good...ish. But then you're also perpetuating the idea still, through action, that it's okay to segregate from the issue. Got a mate in the US that was gay, he'd notice when people were being stand offish even if it was polite. And he'd feel down about it. So no matter what you do, discomfort will be noticed at some point. So, why do we all have to? Because imagine, if all the people....
If gay people said that they are uncomfortable around straights nobody would care, there's no straight bars, no straight pride march. There's an interesting thought. We need equality.
I hope the forum awards come back and there's a razzies section because HOLY F**k.
This is about as stupid as white people in America bitching that there's no "White History Month" because there's a Black History Month.
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