The relationship/potential relationship advice thread

That's some good new Debs, hope things work out brilliantly for them

Thanks mate same here 

I highly recomend Plenty of Fish for online dating. Its much more chilled out than other online dating sites plus its mostly free. It really does works, I've been on plenty of dates via it, some good some bad but at least its real dates with real girls. I'm actually dating someone via it at the moment and to make it even better she was the one who contacted me :-)

My house mate is on there. He gets a fair amount of interest and has been on one date and if he could be arsed to get out of his computer chair a bit more often, he might have more luck!
If I was single, I'd probably be tempted to try it just for the experience, why not?

Thought I'd share this with you guys who post in here about the "friend becomes gf/bf" possibilities.

My daughter has finally got together with a lad she was at school with, who has remained a friend for the last 12 years. 

Yeah I know that's a long time to wait but as his fb status now states "good think come to those who wait".  How sweet 

Awww Debs, how lovely is that xxx all the very best to them both xx

Awww Debs, how lovely is that xxx all the very best to them both xx

I've not seen her this happy for a long time Cas, he's spoiling her rotten so that helps especially after what she's been through.  It's a massive change for him though, he's gone from being a single lad still living at home to suddenly having a ready made family, looking for a house 

I've not seen her this happy for a long time Cas, he's spoiling her rotten so that helps especially after what she's been through.  It's a massive change for him though, he's gone from being a single lad still living at home to suddenly having a ready made family, looking for a house 

It'll be the making of him Debs xxx I wish them all the very best and you too xxxx hugs xx

It'll be the making of him Debs xxx I wish them all the very best and you too xxxx hugs xx

Thanks hun xx

Good news Debs - you both deserve it.

Not an issue more of a rant.

My mate walks out on his wife after years of troubles about 18 months ago, moves back in with his mum and dad hes 44. Needs someone to go out with at weekends and Im there pretty much nearly every Saturday - I like a beer at weekends so am happy to oblige - he has a number of kids all grown up, his youngest daughter is 13 or 14 has a life of her own always out with friends etc especially at weekends. 6 weeks ago he meets this bird, pretty much moves in with her and blanks me the F**k out at weekends making bollox excuses about his daughter staying over 3 times in the past 6 weeks bearing in mind she hasnt stayed over for 18 months.

He says "nothings gonna change ill still be out" then feeds me bullshit excuses like a mug expecting me to fall for it. Now im happy for him that he has met someone but he rushes in too fast everytime and when it goes tits up cos he dont let them breath he comes calling to me.

Now I have my own life, live with my gf and our kid, but I made time for him on a saturday night because he needed to get out then boom you can do your own thing now i have another ready made family to move into.

Is he being a thoughtless c**t or am i being too angry that ive lost my drinking partner at the weekend!

Not an issue more of a rant.

My mate walks out on his wife after years of troubles about 18 months ago, moves back in with his mum and dad hes 44. Needs someone to go out with at weekends and Im there pretty much nearly every Saturday - I like a beer at weekends so am happy to oblige - he has a number of kids all grown up, his youngest daughter is 13 or 14 has a life of her own always out with friends etc especially at weekends. 6 weeks ago he meets this bird, pretty much moves in with her and blanks me the f**k out at weekends making bollox excuses about his daughter staying over 3 times in the past 6 weeks bearing in mind she hasnt stayed over for 18 months.

He says "nothings gonna change ill still be out" then feeds me bullshit excuses like a mug expecting me to fall for it. Now im happy for him that he has met someone but he rushes in too fast everytime and when it goes tits up cos he dont let them breath he comes calling to me.

Now I have my own life, live with my gf and our kid, but I made time for him on a saturday night because he needed to get out then boom you can do your own thing now i have another ready made family to move into.

Is he being a thoughtless c**t or am i being too angry that ive lost my drinking partner at the weekend!

Bit of both maybe. It is important to still have your own life in a relationship though, so he's making a big mistake there. btw does his new girlfriend know you, it could be shes telling him not to meet up with you, and he doesn't want to mess up a good thing, it's a bit cowardly of him if that's the case though.

Not an issue more of a rant.

My mate walks out on his wife after years of troubles about 18 months ago, moves back in with his mum and dad hes 44. Needs someone to go out with at weekends and Im there pretty much nearly every Saturday - I like a beer at weekends so am happy to oblige - he has a number of kids all grown up, his youngest daughter is 13 or 14 has a life of her own always out with friends etc especially at weekends. 6 weeks ago he meets this bird, pretty much moves in with her and blanks me the F**k out at weekends making bollox excuses about his daughter staying over 3 times in the past 6 weeks bearing in mind she hasnt stayed over for 18 months.

He says "nothings gonna change ill still be out" then feeds me bullshit excuses like a mug expecting me to fall for it. Now im happy for him that he has met someone but he rushes in too fast everytime and when it goes tits up cos he dont let them breath he comes calling to me.

Now I have my own life, live with my gf and our kid, but I made time for him on a saturday night because he needed to get out then boom you can do your own thing now i have another ready made family to move into.

Is he being a thoughtless c**t or am i being too angry that ive lost my drinking partner at the weekend!

Plenty more fish in the sea mate.

It's a perfectly normal thing to happen when a guy finds a new girlfriend, unfortunately.

Bit of both maybe. It is important to still have your own life in a relationship though, so he's making a big mistake there. btw does his new girlfriend know you, it could be shes telling him not to meet up with you, and he doesn't want to mess up a good thing, it's a bit cowardly of him if that's the case though.

I was there when he met her but probably some truth in what you say.

He brought her out New Years Eve and she stood there with a face like a smacked arse for most of the night while he pandered to her every wish trying to make sure she was happy....it was quite sickly really and it was very clear she makes the rules in their relationship. It wasnt like she was on her own either she brought her best mate with her and was still a moody c**t.

That feeling you're in a porno when a very attractive work colleague invites you to her place for drinks after work.

That feeling you're in a porno when a very attractive work colleague invites you to her place for drinks after work.

Just remember though


You are not in a porno..


You are not a plumber.. She won't need help with her pipes..

Just remember though


You are not in a porno..


You are not a plumber.. She won't need help with her pipes..

I was thinking more pizza delivery guy anyway.

I was thinking more pizza delivery guy anyway.

Try it..

 

Pop and get changed, turn up, outfit on holding pizza box with a hole cut in the bottom of the box..


Foolproof

Try it..

 

Pop and get changed, turn up, outfit on holding pizza box with a hole cut in the bottom of the box..


Foolproof

YES. "Anyone order a pizza with extra sausage?"