Hi, me again!
Not sure I'm after advice exactly because I think I know what the majority will say anyway. Just want to share a bit of an update with you.
So I've told you about
Sarah and the fact that she's coming down in a week and a bit to 'watch a film'. Looking forward to it but the fact is we were both pissed when we met so meeting her when sober might be different. Who knows.
Donna now has a missus named Lotti and I'd drawn a line under that one but that hasn't been as simple as I'd hoped. Donna spent all last weekend with me as it was something we'd planned before she met Lotti and we had a great time. Once she'd left I found I missed her company but swallowed it down and tried to get on with things. I couldn't help feeling that if that had been the first time we'd met and before she met Lotti then things might have been different but ho hum. Trouble is, as much as her missus is all gushy on Fb to her, Donna isn't really replying and is texting me a LOT, telling me what a great time she had. Not only that but when I told her about Sarah, she asked me a million questions and when I asked her about Lotti, she just said she was seeing how it goes and not looking for anything serious yet. Also, me and Donna are sharng a hotel room together next weekend after a festival + aftershow party. As Lotti lives nearby I told Donna I wouldn't be at all offended if she'd rather stay with Lotti and said the room was paid for anyway. She replied saying there was no way she would change, we'd planned it together and it was us two all the way.
I know I know, I'm just over-analysing things again and tying myself in knots. Can't help it.
Then there's
Tina. She has a lad who turns 2 soon (not a problem in itself) but also a boyfriend who's just finishing a 2 and a half year stretch in prison. I didn't know that when I met her, it was when I was at my mate's unit fixing my car. She's a friend of my mate's girlfriend and came down from Manchester to visit them, that's why she was here. We have absolutely nothing in common but you know when someone has that air about them? Well anyway, we get on ridiculously well. She's very chatty but also down-to-earth.
Now obviously when I found out about her fella, I said straight away that I wasn't going to do anything with her. Not because I was worried about him but because I wouldn't agree with treating him like that. We have carried on talking though and she has suggested that it's unlikely that their relationship would continue for very long once he's out if she suspects that he hasn't changed. I told her, unselfishly that the best thing for her and her lad would be if her fella HAS changed and they can stay together as a family. For that reason I said I was going to back off.
I was at my mate's unit today and his missus was at a bar so we popped there for a quick drink afterwards. Guess who was there? Yep, Tina. I only stayed for an hour but it was an hour of constant talking and I felt totally at home with her. My mate said that as soon as she got to Stoke, she immediately started quizzing him about me, where I was, when he'd last seen me, if I was coming around, if I'd mentioned her....
So to be honest, my head's a bit of a mess tonight and I just thought I'd share that lot with you. Tina's very interested, Sarah's obviously interested, I'm interested in both but probably still more interested in Donna, who probably isn't interested