Alright.. whether there is a thread for this i do not know. But i needed to start this anyways!
So, just been on facebook chat, talkin to a good mate back home. Been awhile since we chatted, and he is someone i went to school with along with my best mate Sam. Now since i have been in the USA the last 8 months, i have chatted to my mate Sam a lot keeping in touch and stuff. When i went back for my weeks visit in September i spent half the time hanging with him (along with my other best mate) and went clubbing and then my last night there i went out to Wolfmother with him before getting hammered like old times. Really is just a great mate, done everything with him since i was 15. Clubbing, meeting girls, hooking up, messing up sh*t, everything right down to just watching a DVD.
But last few weeks i have not seen him online much, just thought he must have been busy. But then this other good mate tonight tells me that the last few weeks Sam has been dragged into some huge benders on drugs, pills and all that sh*t. One of them being a 4-5 day bender where he skipped work and just partied for 5 days straight. I'm F***ing shattered. I mean i know some don't see drugs as that badder thing, but regardless ive seen many mates go down the drain because of them and hearing he has been dragged in hurts like a knife to the heart. I have had countless great nights out with this guy, just on a good time with beers and i know the guy loves that. I know he was pretty sad when i left, and i do worry me being gone has caused him to go in a different direction
So what do i do!!!! I wanna help somehow but i don't know what to do.. I was meant to be in bed by now but i am up and gonna probbly finish the beer i have left cos im just so shattered right now. Just wondering if anyone has any advice??
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