I am sorry for your loss Pglynn, stay strong mate.
I can't even imagine what you and your friends are going through, cause I've never been in that situation, but no matter what he did, or what his reasons were, I would only say remember him for all the well, you said it yourself he was a great lad, so only have that in your mind.
I am always an optimist, maybe not the biggest, but I always say that nothing is forever, even the hardest moments in life will come to an end, eventually. I've never been in this position, and I can only hope I never will, but the human mind is a very powerful thing, it does separate us from the animals in nature, but it can also easily turn us into beasts.
Stay strong Pglynn.
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