^ Ross, stop trying to steal my job!!
I need help! I find this girl that i have known for a pretty long time, very attractive....and i mean VERY attractive. Plus, i get on with her like a house on fire. Only problem is, i am not sure if it is a passing thing and also, she is like my best friend. How do i tell if it is in passing? Also, i don't hink she likes me in the same way- she see's me a really really good friend but i don't think anything more than that
This situation is a bit tricky.
You say you find her attractive but you're not sure if it's just a faze that you're going through.
And also you're quite sure she doesn't like you in that way.
Well, with all that taken into consideration, my best advice to you would be to give it time.
Wait a while before saying anything, just to know how you really feel about her and then if the feeling persists then take the next step.
Don't tell her straight away, maybe drop hints and be a little bit more affectionate towards her to see what kind of reaction you get.
But before all this, as I said, give it time. There is no point in you rushing in and telling her how you feel if you yourself aren't even sure.
You could jeopardise your friendship and make things really awkward.
Also, you asked how do you know if it's a passing thing?
Well, yet again time will tell. If the feeling doesn't go away/gets stronger over the next few weeks/possibly months then it's probably not a 'passing thing' but only you know how you really feel. Maybe compare your feeling you have towards her to someone who you know you really cared for. You should be able to tell from that.
Hope this helped!
Oh and Happy Christmas Eve Eve!!
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