LP LFC Agony Aunt extraordinaire

This thread is hilarious! 

Auntie LP ( ) ..... I have a question about guys .......do they all really care only about looks or are there a few sensible ones who actually like us for more than our body and who we really are ?

Lets see what the great Dr.Princess has to say about this !

Well yes looks are important but is that the ONLY thing you care about in relationship ?

Well Niks, although a lot of men may appear to just be attracted to us girls for our looks, I assure you that there are men out there that care about more than just what you look like.  Looks won't get you far when it comes to a relationship. A casual 'fling' is the furthest that will go.

A personality and a good sense of humour are far more essential than just the way you look. And believe it or not, men know this aswell!  Being attracted to someone for just there looks is nothing compared to being attracted to someone for there personality, and for just being them really. So be yourself and let Mr.Right find you.

So, I used to like a girl for a long time. I finally mustered the courage and told her I liked her at a friend's event (house garden too :O) in 2007 and told her to think about it and get back to me after our exams but it's already 2009 and still no answer.

That of course, made up my mind to not talk to her again cause according to my mates, she stood me up and that's a very mean thing to do( giving No as answer would have been a good desture at leasT). I used to text her but I'll either get a reply a year later( not literally but I'd get replies the next day) or no reply. So , all in all, I probably wasted my time.

So, LP, what do you think? (I hope you don't tell me to fix it because I can't be bothered to)

Hmmm... What did she actaully say or do when you told her you liked her?
Did she seem shocked, happy...?

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Male to Female Ratio:  5.7:1
Best not be slagging us off now!

So be yourself and let Mr.Right find you.

Torres is already spoken for...... Dunno who niks Mr Right is tho 

I'm always Mr. Right to the person to my left.

Thanks guys ! I'm happy that I can see this form a real guy's point of view . Most of the guys in my school are noobs anyways ! One of 'em said " girls are toys you;re just meant to play with them". Yeah obviously I will be attracted to a guy first by his looks but if he genuinely likes me and we are really compatible then like you guys said ' everything else is a bonus' .

EDIT : Sorry about ruining your thread LP !

That guy is clearly about as mature as a 5 year old! And deserves a good slap.
Stay well away niks. 

Torres is already spoken for...... Dunno who niks Mr Right is tho 

 

C'mon who wouldnt be attracted to Torres he's lush and I'm a bloke

^ True, he is pretty cute. But spoken for unfortunately RedLFCBlood!

I know i'd bin my other half for his money

Err, LP, I'm your top client here!

Ignore the other dross and answer my question, it was clearly the best!

Hmmm... What did she actaully say or do when you told her you liked her?
Did she seem shocked, happy...?

I got a free (lame) hug, haha. She didn't really say much. Don't think I can even remember that incident clearly anymore.

Err, LP, I'm your top client here!

Ignore the other dross and answer my question, it was clearly the best!

Sorry Ross  

Well, if a girl usually likes you, she'll usually pay more attention to you, which should be enough to give you a hint. It really depends on the environment of which you meet the girl. For instance in a pub/club/house party, usually there's no second guessing, if she's consumed alcohol, chances are she'll probably just tell you! 

But in a work/School environment...  You might find that you catch each others eyes a lot. And she may just text you for the most simplest thing, e.g 'What time are you in at tomorrow?' which will lead to 'What are you up to?' and so on, so forth.

She'll laugh at your jokes (even though they may not be THAT funny)
If she's usually a confident girl, you may notice that she gets a little bit shy when around you.
She will just be nicer to you in general, e.g asking you if you want a lift, taking an interest in most things that you mention while talking.
You may also find her friends asking you random questions about relationships and so on, this is to find out if you like the girl in question. But this technique is usually used on the younger generation

In general, I think if she likes you, you should pick up some sort of vibe no matter how small.
All girls have different ways of showing a guy that she likes them, but I think I've said all the main things.
Hope this helps!

That guy is clearly about as mature as a 5 year old! And deserves a good slap.
Stay well away niks. 

Thanks for the info Auntie LP , you have truly made me believe in guys now ( well some of 'em )  ! All of my friends and I know to stay away form that guys , he is my age , 16 , and he knows that he can't mess with our group because there is 4 of us so if he tries something one one of us the other three will beat him up ! ! Yeah I will find my Mr.Right i have loads of time , I'm only asking this because alot people in my grade are already in a relation ship and I seem to be lagging behind ( but I'm not too bothered about though  ) !

RedLFCBlood : I would totally go for Nando ( if he was my age ,in my school and not already married )  He's everything I'd want in a guy : Sweet , hot , cute , down to earth and awesome footy skillz  , shy and loyal !

But in a work/School environment...  You might find that you catch each others eyes a lot. And she may just text you for the most simplest thing, e.g 'What time are you in at tomorrow?' which will lead to 'What are you up to?' and so on, so forth.

Oh right.

So maybe that text I got saying "STAY THE F**k AWAY OR I'LL GET A RESTRAINING ORDER" didn't mean she likes me then.

Sorry Ross 

Well, if a girl usually likes you, she'll usually pay more attention to you, which should be enough to give you a hint. It really depends on the environment of which you meet the girl. For instance in a pub/club/house party, usually there's no second guessing, if she's consumed alcohol, chances are she'll probably just tell you! 

But in a work/School environment...  You might find that you catch each others eyes a lot. And she may just text you for the most simplest thing, e.g 'What time are you in at tomorrow?' which will lead to 'What are you up to?' and so on, so forth.

She'll laugh at your jokes (even though they may not be THAT funny)
If she's usually a confident girl, you may notice that she gets a little bit shy when around you.
She will just be nicer to you in general, e.g asking you if you want a lift, taking an interest in most things that you mention while talking.
You may also find her friends asking you random questions about relationships and so on, this is to find out if you like the girl in question. But this technique is usually used on the younger generation

In general, I think if she likes you, you should pick up some sort of vibe no matter how small.
All girls have different ways of showing a guy that she likes them, but I think I've said all the main things.
Hope this helps!

You seem to know very well, don't you LP? but in my honest opinion, I think you got most of those right. Well done, LP and great thread

Sorry Ross 

Well, if a girl usually likes you, she'll usually pay more attention to you, which should be enough to give you a hint. It really depends on the environment of which you meet the girl. For instance in a pub/club/house party, usually there's no second guessing, if she's consumed alcohol, chances are she'll probably just tell you! 

But in a work/School environment...  You might find that you catch each others eyes a lot. And she may just text you for the most simplest thing, e.g 'What time are you in at tomorrow?' which will lead to 'What are you up to?' and so on, so forth.

She'll laugh at your jokes (even though they may not be THAT funny)
If she's usually a confident girl, you may notice that she gets a little bit shy when around you.
She will just be nicer to you in general, e.g asking you if you want a lift, taking an interest in most things that you mention while talking.
You may also find her friends asking you random questions about relationships and so on, this is to find out if you like the girl in question. But this technique is usually used on the younger generation

In general, I think if she likes you, you should pick up some sort of vibe no matter how small.
All girls have different ways of showing a guy that she likes them, but I think I've said all the main things.
Hope this helps!

Nice one LP!

That wasn't particularly for me, just for any guy on here that's interested. I know for a fact it's difficult to tell at times whether they are just being friendly or there's more there than meets the eye.

Nice one LP!

That wasn't particularly for me...

I'm Sure it wasn't Ross... 

Do you write a column for the local papers, LP?

Aunt Agony's

Do you write a column for the local papers, LP?

Aunt Agony's

I was thinking along those lines myself Ad !  I think that dear deardre may be getting on a little now, maybe theres some money in it for her ?

I'm Sure it wasn't Ross... 

OI!

As an Agony Aunt you're not supposed to be sarcastic. I'll sack ye in a minute.

OI!

As an Agony Aunt you're not supposed to be sarcastic. I'll sack ye in a minute.

Come on, Ross. We know you've got some hidden agendas

Okay here's one for the lads.

Dear Liverprincess, how as lads do we know when a girl is interested in us? What signs may she give? I believe we often as gentlemen don't notice and there are missed opportunities. Do inform.

Sorry Ross  

Well, if a girl usually likes you, she'll usually pay more attention to you, which should be enough to give you a hint. It really depends on the environment of which you meet the girl. For instance in a pub/club/house party, usually there's no second guessing, if she's consumed alcohol, chances are she'll probably just tell you!  

But in a work/School environment...  You might find that you catch each others eyes a lot. And she may just text you for the most simplest thing, e.g 'What time are you in at tomorrow?' which will lead to 'What are you up to?' and so on, so forth.

She'll laugh at your jokes (even though they may not be THAT funny)
If she's usually a confident girl, you may notice that she gets a little bit shy when around you.
She will just be nicer to you in general, e.g asking you if you want a lift, taking an interest in most things that you mention while talking.
You may also find her friends asking you random questions about relationships and so on, this is to find out if you like the girl in question. But this technique is usually used on the younger generation

In general, I think if she likes you, you should pick up some sort of vibe no matter how small.
All girls have different ways of showing a guy that she likes them, but I think I've said all the main things.
Hope this helps!

I think Ross was referring to the Internet, in particular, forums  


Lovin' this thread, great work and advice LP.